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I've been toying with stepping into text message dating... Basically it's similar to internet chatting except that you deliver text messages and get to get together new people that way. I considered it'd be entertaining to try it out because I am just always working with my Blackberry. I eventually signed up to TextNDate and tried it out. A buddy of mine sent me the link through Yahoo messenger and really hyped it up, so i decided what the heck.

Right away I met this girl Michelle from River North. The lady sounded really cool, turns out we are into many of the exact same tv shows and movies, and are around the same age. We basically made plans to go out next week for dinner so I'm going to post how it went (of course, if getting together with girls using your cellular really will work).

I found tons of different people also, quite a few promising plus some kinda odd, nevertheless I made a decision to only give attention to a few because it really is a good deal to keep track of! I wish I could figure out how to consolidate my contacts on my phone, that'd make this a bunch less difficult to deal with. There are an amazing quantity of young women living in Chicago from which to choose.

The very best part about that was I can send out casual texts even while I was on the job, at the grocery store, anything, the same as I had been messaging my friends... From time to time being riveted to the pc becomes exhausting you know? I had a fairly interesting convo with this one girl even though I was in a checkout line even! Anyhow for anyone who is interested in learning everything click the link to visit Text N Date, You need to for certain.

Hi everyone and happy mothers day to all the mothers out there even though I am a few days late on that one sorry lol. I have been very busy with work and stuff lately so I haven't had much time for dating and for updating this blog. I have had some success with the online dating thing. I am starting to get sick and tired of meeting new women and then spending all the time it takes to get to know them to see if there is any compatibility only to meet them in real life and then not like them then have to start all over again. What I have been finding lately is that I am meeting these women online and then they say they have an average body shape and they take pictures at weird angles or pics of just their faces which do look good but then when I meet them in real life they are basically fat. Ok, maybe fat is being too harsh but lots of them are chubby and that is not what I am attracted to. I like girls that are thin, I do not like girls that are chubby. This may sound harsh but I have noticed that the thinner a woman is the better her vagina smells. Yes that is right, chubby girls have stinky pussies

The other thing that has been pissing me off lately is that there were two girls I was chatting with that mentioned that bad breath was a turn off of theirs. Duh, who doesn't have that as a turn off. I am always quite conscientious about my breath and I make sure I have mints or gum with me all the time and I recognize that when I drink coffee or other things it will make your breath smell like shit. The part that has been pissing me off is the fact that both of these girls had bad breath a few times when I was kissing them and I was like wtf the audacity of these girls to list that as a turn off. There are a multitude of things that women do that are very hypocritical. I am starting to wonder if I will ever find someone who fits all the physical criteria that I like and at the same time actually likes the same types of things that I do. Damn it is windy outside right now. I have been going on bike rides lately as a form of cardio but when the wind blows this strong it is totally crappy and I don't want to go. There has been a few times where I was going downhill and the wind was blowing in my face and it felt like I was barely moving at all.

Let me tell you about one of the girls I have been working on. I met her last week just before the weekend and we went through the usual scenario where we exchange a few messages on the online dating site and then eventually start to chat on MSN. Her name is Kelly and she is very big into working out, so much so that she is kind of muscular. It is not that I don't like muscular women... I would just prefer someone who is thin. I like thin girls. The good thing is that she is not fat. She is basically average but muscular. She has a 6 pack and doesn't seem to have much fat but she is not thin. I told her we should meet for coffee because that is how I roll these days. There is this cool little coffee house here in Chicago called Bronzeville Coffee and Tea, Inc. that I told her to meet me at. I got there a bit late and she was already sitting down. I went over and introduced myself with a dry ass hand shake then we sat and chatted. She was pretty attractive but I wanted to see more of her body. I should have got there early so I could have watched her walk in and shit. We chatted for a few hours and then we parted company. I really have no idea how it went. It ended with a handshake and I have yet to hear from her since then.

Hi everyone, I am finally back on track with things and I am finally all caught up at work. My son seems to be doing well and he is going to be attending college in September. All I need to do now is to keep him out of trouble for the summer so I told him he should come and stay with me for a while and he is going to come down next week so that will be good.

I only got a few messages back from all the old girls I was talking to and nothing really seems to be happening with any of those girls which is fine. My focus right now is my job and my son. I haven't spent too much time on the site. I intend to today look through the site over lunch and browse all the new girls that have joined the site in the last sixty days and send out some messages. I think I want to hook up with some redheads and the good thing about the site is that you are able to refine your searches so that if you only want to see girls with red hair and are thin, you can do that. The other kind of girl I want to find is a girl that does yoga and that is something else you can do, you can search by interests and just type the word yoga in there.

I did meet one interesting woman who is 32 and runs her own business consulting firm. So far we have just been exchanging messages back and forth on the online dating site but I am going to ask her if she wants to start chatting on msn really soon. There are 2 new restaurants that just opened up here in Chicago that I want to check out. Other than that things have been pretty quiet on the dating front. It is already Friday night basically so I don't think I will be doing much tonight. I will either go and hang out with some of my guy friends or I will go to a movie. I really want to see this new movie called Hot Tub Time Machine. I could use a good comedic relief right now after all the hours I have spent in the last 2 weeks working and talking with my son and getting him ready for going to school in the fall. I had to pull some strings and agree to make a sizable donation to the school in order for my son to get accepted but that is fine. It is only money and I have a lot of it.

I promise to update this blog again very soon once I have something interesting to share about my personal life and hopefully there will be some hot dates to tell you about.

Where should I begin... first let me apologize for the lack of posts over the last 30 days. Like I said I have never been married, however, I do have a son that is 18 years old. Back when I was 19 and in still in law school I ended up getting this girl pregnant and she decided to keep the kid and for us not to be together and I didn't really have much say in the matter. She said she never wanted any more from me and furthermore that she was never going to tell her son who his real father was. She always told him that she was never quite sure who her real father was. Last month I got a call from her telling me that he had overdosed on heroine. I decided to fly out to Los Angeles where they live and visit him in the hospital. She told me that not allowing me in his life all this time was a big mistake and that without a male presence in his life he turned into a degenerate type of person doing crime and drugs and depressed and now almost killed himself.

So I have spent the last month or so there in LA getting to know my son as he recovered from the hospital. He was extremely surprised to meet me and the whole thing was pretty fucked up and emotional but hopefully this will give him new hope for life. Not only does he have a father figure in his life now, but he has a successful father he can look up to. I really think he is going to be able to turn his life around and I am 100% committed to helping him in any way I can including financially. He said he would like to go to college or university so I have been talking with some faculty people I know in LA about getting him to finish his high school so he can then get accepted into a school. I don't care what it takes, I am going to help him become a better person so that we can have a relationship and he can prosper.

As far as dating online goes, I pretty much put that on hold. I do have a whack of messages that have piled up inside the online dating site I am a member of but I doubt any of those women are still looking for anyone. I have noticed that once time passes people lose interest. So tonight I am going to send out a message to all the women that have been messaging me and tell them the story of my son and what has happened and see if any of them can relate to my story and see if any of them are still interested in going out with me. I have a lot of catchup work to do. I have been having interns and junior lawyers handle all my business since I have been gone and tomorrow I am going back to work for the first time and I am going to find out how much work I need to do and what fires need to be put out. I will update this blog again soon with more info on my dating life, I know this other stuff may not be of interest to you but I feel better having someone to talk to - even if it is just text on a screen.

On Sunday I went out with this woman named Roberta. I bet a lot of your are thinking wow that is not a very attractive name and if I told you I was setting you up on a blind date with a woman named Roberta you would be like no way man. Well the opposite couldn't be more true. She is one of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life, let along actually gone out with on a date. She is 34 and she is a translator. She is fluent in 6 different languages so she gets a lot of work doing translation for high end clients like law firms, politicians, and the entertainment industry. I know I said in my previous post that I was going to try and think of something creative to do for a date vs the regular take a girl out to a restaurant date but sorry I failed on that one and we ended up at a restaurant afterall.

I took her to this place called Zealous Restaurant which is one of my favorites. It is fine dining and they really do things up amazing there. She seemed unimpressed by the place so I guess she has been to lots of fancy places before. I know she makes good money for the work that she does. We had a very interesting conversation over dinner and things didn't seem to relaxed. She talked a lot about her job, well because I was asking her lots of questions about herself and what she did. I spent some time talking about my job etc but I didn't get into too much detail because divorce is not the bets topic on a first date. The food was excellent as usual and so was the service.

We left that restaurant around 9pm and headed over to this place called 955 Fulton Lounge so that we could just chill on a couch and I could put my arm around her and sip a cocktail and listen to some cool chilled lounge music. That is exactly what happened and it was a really cool vibe and cool place. We chilled there until about midnight and then we left in a taxi to go to her place. She invited me up and so I up I went. We were both standing in front of her liquor cabinet and she asked me what I wanted? I replied "you" and then touched her face with my hand and kissed her passionately. She tasted so good it was amazing and she smelled really good too and so did her place. We made out on the couch a bit and then eventually I left and called a taxi and rode the way home with a big grin.

Hi everyone, sorry it has taken so long since my last post but like I said I have been busy as hell over the last couple weeks. My caseload is so high that I am considering hiring an assistant. The firm has offered before to get me an assistant but I am trying really hard to make partner and I don't want them to see me using the assistant as a crutch. I want them to know how hard of a worker I am and that I don't need to rely on other people to get my job done.

Let me tell you about how things are going with the redhead search. I have heard back from 5 of the original 7 redheads I messaged a few weeks ago and this morning I combed through the online dating site and I found a few more potential redheads so I sent them off messages, we will see how that goes.

Out of the 5 redheads, only 3 of them are natural redheads but one of the ones that isn't is soooooooo hot I am not sure I care anymore about the redhead thing. She is so hot though I bet she is getting messages from tons of guys and I am sure I am up against a lot of stiff competition. I have been so busy with work I have not been sending messages back and forth with these girls as often as I think I should be. I don't want them to lose interest or to meet some other guy they like better because so far all 3 of them seem to like me.

I am talking to all 3 of them on msn and I know they all are anxious to meet me and now that I have some more free time on my hands I am going to setup some dates with them but I want to try and think of something unique and creative vs just taking them out to a restaurant or a bar or a lounge. I am going to spend some time today googling date ideas etc and I will let you know what I come up with.

Happy New Year all. I hope you all had a great holiday and I hope you all made some new years resolutions. I personally made a resolution to make sure that I am targeting the right kind of girls this time around. With that being said, I decided not to talk to that girl Rachel anymore. She is just too confusing and last week I was reading that relationships should be simple. Also I decided that I want to date a redhead.

This morning I searched through the online dating site and I messaged 7 different redheads. I am not sure if they are all real redheads or if some of them have dyed their hair. I only want to date the girls who have real red hair. It is too hard to tell if they dyed their hair because girls can dye their eyebrows as well then it gets really hard to tell.

These redheads that I messaged are a wide variety of ages. Some of them are in their early twenties, some of them are in their late twenties and some of them are in their thirties. I even messaged one woman who is 41 but she looks really hot. I expect to get some messages coming in pretty soon from these women.

I really hate the holidays because whenever I get back to work after them I am always backlogged and then I get a whole bunch of new cases. This happens because a lot of people will decide to get a divorce in the early part of the new year. They do this because during xmas and shit they don't want to upset their children so they agree to wait until after the holidays so their kids can still enjoy one last time together. Also lots of people create new years resolutions and getting a divorce is a common one. I will update more as the new messages come in and I have something interesting to report.

The amount of girls I meet online is ridiculous. Perhaps I should not have put in anything about me being a lawyer etc because I think that is the main reason I get so many inquiries online. I like to think that I am a decent looking guy, but I got a feeling that that is not the reason for all the inquiries. I guess everyone is looking for security and money is important. So far, I have not dated any weird ethnicity girls yet. I have pretty much stuck to white girls but now I am thinking I should branch out and give some of these other girls a chance... wow that sounded so conceited lol. Anyways, I went through all my requests and I selected 6 girls who I normally would not ever go out with. I haven't had much luck with white women yet in terms of trying to find someone I am compatible with so why not... lets give it a shot and see how it goes. The first girl is named Maria and she is latin. I'm not sure exactly from where, but she has olive skin and dark hair etc. She is lean but she has some nice curves, like all latin girls do. In her profile pictures she is wearing skin tight pants - big shocker there lol. So my plan is to go on a date with each of these 6 girls and if I have no success than I am going back to nothing but white girls lol. So I am going to take her out for dinner tomorrow night and I am not sure if I should take her to Charlie Trotter's on Armitage Ave. or if I should take her to Brazzaz on Dearborn St. Both of them are high end places, but I think I might go with Trotter's because I doubt that is the kind of food that she is used to and I want to see how she behaves outside of her comfort zone. I will probably take her over to 404 Wine Bar since we are going to be in the Lincoln Park Area. I will let you guys know how it goes