On Thursday I took that girl Rachel to a little eatery called Lou Mitchell's Restaurant. The place is really average but the atmosphere is great and so are the staff that work there. I frequent the place at least once a week. You might be wondering why me the fancy pancy lawyer with all the money and power is eating at such a small hole in the wall type of place? Well first off I used to go there all the time with my father when I was younger. Secondly it is a good place to take a girl to see if she is a gold digger. I can usually tell right as we pull up in front of the place whether or not the girl approves or not of the joint. I have had women say "We are eating here?" and I have replied no and drove away to another better restaurant then once we are seated I will say I am going to the bathroom and then never come back and just leave them sitting there hanging, alone, uncomfortable, wondering what is going on. I usually get either an angry or a confused phone message or email the next day and I usually just never respond. I think that it is a shame that so many women are brought up to leech off of men. Just because they see that I make money, they think that I am a dummy and I want to just shower them with gifts and generosity. This couldn't be farther from the truth. This place is my restaurant test. So anyways Rachel passed the test because when we pulled up out front she said oh this place looks cool I have never been here before. This shows me that she is open minded and also won't easily jump to conclusions and inaccurate assumptions. It was only 6pm so the place was just slowly starting to fill up from everyone getting off of work etc. We had some coffee and ordered dinner and we talked about a lot of different stuff. It was a weird dynamic though because I did not feel a lot of sexual chemistry between us, it was more like just two friends talking getting to know each other. I am not sure why there was this lack of chemistry but it was there. Maybe because she was just shy and didn't want to let on that she liked me, or maybe it was because I was kind of in a bad mood before the date and didn't really want to even go so I was all poo paa about the whole thing. Maybe it was because I'm not sure if I want a real relationship so I was holding back. After we finished eating we went for a walk in a nearby park and watched some dogs play with each other. It was pretty cold though so eventually we got back in the car and I drove her home. We exchanged a brief kiss out front of her place but nothing special. I am kind of confused about this girl and I am not sure if I want to see her again. I think I have some stuff I need to work out.
