Chicago Single Life

On Sunday I went out with this woman named Roberta. I bet a lot of your are thinking wow that is not a very attractive name and if I told you I was setting you up on a blind date with a woman named Roberta you would be like no way man. Well the opposite couldn't be more true. She is one of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life, let along actually gone out with on a date. She is 34 and she is a translator. She is fluent in 6 different languages so she gets a lot of work doing translation for high end clients like law firms, politicians, and the entertainment industry. I know I said in my previous post that I was going to try and think of something creative to do for a date vs the regular take a girl out to a restaurant date but sorry I failed on that one and we ended up at a restaurant afterall.

I took her to this place called Zealous Restaurant which is one of my favorites. It is fine dining and they really do things up amazing there. She seemed unimpressed by the place so I guess she has been to lots of fancy places before. I know she makes good money for the work that she does. We had a very interesting conversation over dinner and things didn't seem to relaxed. She talked a lot about her job, well because I was asking her lots of questions about herself and what she did. I spent some time talking about my job etc but I didn't get into too much detail because divorce is not the bets topic on a first date. The food was excellent as usual and so was the service.

We left that restaurant around 9pm and headed over to this place called 955 Fulton Lounge so that we could just chill on a couch and I could put my arm around her and sip a cocktail and listen to some cool chilled lounge music. That is exactly what happened and it was a really cool vibe and cool place. We chilled there until about midnight and then we left in a taxi to go to her place. She invited me up and so I up I went. We were both standing in front of her liquor cabinet and she asked me what I wanted? I replied "you" and then touched her face with my hand and kissed her passionately. She tasted so good it was amazing and she smelled really good too and so did her place. We made out on the couch a bit and then eventually I left and called a taxi and rode the way home with a big grin.

Hi everyone, sorry it has taken so long since my last post but like I said I have been busy as hell over the last couple weeks. My caseload is so high that I am considering hiring an assistant. The firm has offered before to get me an assistant but I am trying really hard to make partner and I don't want them to see me using the assistant as a crutch. I want them to know how hard of a worker I am and that I don't need to rely on other people to get my job done.

Let me tell you about how things are going with the redhead search. I have heard back from 5 of the original 7 redheads I messaged a few weeks ago and this morning I combed through the online dating site and I found a few more potential redheads so I sent them off messages, we will see how that goes.

Out of the 5 redheads, only 3 of them are natural redheads but one of the ones that isn't is soooooooo hot I am not sure I care anymore about the redhead thing. She is so hot though I bet she is getting messages from tons of guys and I am sure I am up against a lot of stiff competition. I have been so busy with work I have not been sending messages back and forth with these girls as often as I think I should be. I don't want them to lose interest or to meet some other guy they like better because so far all 3 of them seem to like me.

I am talking to all 3 of them on msn and I know they all are anxious to meet me and now that I have some more free time on my hands I am going to setup some dates with them but I want to try and think of something unique and creative vs just taking them out to a restaurant or a bar or a lounge. I am going to spend some time today googling date ideas etc and I will let you know what I come up with.

Happy New Year all. I hope you all had a great holiday and I hope you all made some new years resolutions. I personally made a resolution to make sure that I am targeting the right kind of girls this time around. With that being said, I decided not to talk to that girl Rachel anymore. She is just too confusing and last week I was reading that relationships should be simple. Also I decided that I want to date a redhead.

This morning I searched through the online dating site and I messaged 7 different redheads. I am not sure if they are all real redheads or if some of them have dyed their hair. I only want to date the girls who have real red hair. It is too hard to tell if they dyed their hair because girls can dye their eyebrows as well then it gets really hard to tell.

These redheads that I messaged are a wide variety of ages. Some of them are in their early twenties, some of them are in their late twenties and some of them are in their thirties. I even messaged one woman who is 41 but she looks really hot. I expect to get some messages coming in pretty soon from these women.

I really hate the holidays because whenever I get back to work after them I am always backlogged and then I get a whole bunch of new cases. This happens because a lot of people will decide to get a divorce in the early part of the new year. They do this because during xmas and shit they don't want to upset their children so they agree to wait until after the holidays so their kids can still enjoy one last time together. Also lots of people create new years resolutions and getting a divorce is a common one. I will update more as the new messages come in and I have something interesting to report.