First of all I am sorry it has been 13 days since my last entry. Things have been very hectic at work and I had some family issues to deal with. I will try and avoid such long gaps in the future. I think it is time I explained more about myself and why I have spent my entire life as a single happy guy. I am a divorcee lawyer and I have spent the last 11 years handling people's divorces. I am sad to report that 99% of all relationships end up in divorcee. I always hear the same stories from divorcees that I represent. Things were always great in the beginning and slowly over time the couples were unable to tolerate the inadequacies of their partner and vice versa. My own parents got divorced when I was 13 years old and I spent from 13 to 18 living with my father who was a criminal lawyer with a very big firm. I watched him get remarried 4 times and each time have it not work out and my father lose more and more of his fortune he had built up as a result of these money hungry donkey whores. Ok, maybe that rhetoric is a bit harsh but those are his words and not mine. He has vowed to never remarry, and yet he has a girlfriend right now that is only 41 and I have a feeling he is going to get married again. It is very difficult for me to watch him be a sucker to love when he is so strong and so successful in virtually every way except when it comes to women. Women are his kryptonite. I hope that better explains why I am the way I am and why I am still single and loving it after all these years.
This weekend that just passed was not bad. Went to a friend's cottage on Sunday and we got drunk as hell and drove around on his property on some 4 wheel atv's and had a grand ol time. There were 8 of us over and later that night we played poker and got hammered out of our minds. I woke up in a corn field. Good times.
On Saturday night I went on a date with a 31 year old nurse named Rachel. She was very hot and was every male patient's wet dream. I bet she helped a lot of people feel better just by being so hot and tending to them. She must get hit on 10 times a day working in the hospital. She is a natural blonde, tall and curvy, with large natural tits. I had to play things real smooth not to let on that I was super attracted to her. I decided against picking her up in the ride and instead met her at the restaurant in a taxi. I told her to meet me at 7pm at Custom House which owned and operated by my good friend Shawn McClain. Ok well he isn't my good friend but I have met him a few times at parties with mutal friends. Reservations were for 7:30 which was good because she showed up at 7:20 - I was sitting there wondering if I had got stood up. She was all apologetic and I thought this is good, I have her right where I want her.
We had dinner and talked for quite a long time about bullshit stuff like politics and the world etc. She didn't act like the typical personality of a nurse. She was not as empathetic as I thought she would be. She was very witty and a bit of an intellect and I was starting to get curious why she was just a nurse and not a full fledged doctor. She told me that she dropped out of medical school and then eventually went back and became just a nurse. I could tell she didn't really want to get into the details so I just left it at that. She said that she was in a relationship with a guy 3 years ago and they had been together for 5 years. She said that she left him because he was not satisfying her and she felt that she had made a mistake hooking up with him.
After dinner we went for a walk through the city but it was kinda chilly out. So we popped into a 24hour coffee shop and drank coffee and chatted until about 1am. I wasn't really getting any sexual vibes from this girl... maybe because she was too busy talking. She liked to talk A LOT. I'm not sure if I could handle too many more dates like this one because I am not big on listening to girls talk. I don't want a relationship with a girl who talks so much, however, she is really hot and I was really attracted to her so maybe I could just pretend that I am listening to all her jibber jabber. I AM looking for Mrs. Right, or at least that is what I tell people, but with my childhood and with my current profession swaying me, I may just be saying this and I may just be in denial. Anyways, we took a taxi to her place, we shook hands and she left. As hot as she is, I'm not sure I wanna go out with her again or not.
Tuesday, November 17. 2009
A return to Spanish roots
On Friday I took out that girl Maria I was talking about. I picked her up at her condo to take her out for dinner and on the way to the restaurant she was ranting and raving about my car. I drive a E55 Benz... if you aren't familiar with this car, just google it. So we arrived at Alhambra Palace Restaurant on W. Randolph St. The place is basically Middle Eastern and Mediterranean food with lots of Moroccan dishes. It is not my typical kind of place. I personally prefer to eat at French and Italian places or sushi.
She really liked the place and was commenting on how it reminded her of Spain. I was happy to be able to give her a nice experience. My only worry with this girl was that she seemed TOO impressed with everything and I was feeling like I was on a reality show like the bachelor etc where the girl gets so wrapped up in all the luxury settings that they get a false sense of what is going on. I am really used to eating in expensive restaurants etc so for me it was like whatever. I think I need to be more careful with the girls I choose because she seemed a bit naive and immature.
The food WAS quite good, I had some kind of simple chicken dish with green peppers and some sauce with some rice etc although just typing this makes me think of what it's like to eat really good risotto and the next date I go on, we are definitely going somewhere that makes great risotto. She told me a lot about her country and how different it was from Chicago. She said she had a really big extended family and that she missed them a lot. I am always very cautious about girls that go on and on about hanging out with their family.
She said she was a big fan of The Smiths and Morrissey and I nearly fell out of my seat. I have never met a girl that likes Moz so I was like wow this girl is cool. She said her favorite song was "That Joke Isn't Funny Anymore" and I told her that my favorite song was "Jack the Ripper" (it's kind of rare, download it) She also said she loves to watch Survivor on tv which I like too. There WAS something about this girl that was rubbing me the wrong way though. Perhaps it was her crooked smile or perhaps it was this lurking suspicion I had that she might have a kid or some other crazy thing from her past.
I wasn't sure how serious I wanted to get with her. When we were leaving the restaurant she grabbed my hand and I was like oooooooo kkkkkkkk I guess she is really into me. However I wasn't sure if she liked me or if she liked the "idea" of me and my flashing car and clothes. As I was driving her home I was thinking... hmm I could easily bang this chick... should I? Or could this girl become a stage 3 clinger (Wedding Crashers reference lol) I kept looking at her curvy hips and was like hmmm ok.
I just drove straight to my place and she was like oh. I was like yeah. She was like I see. We went upstairs and I poured a few drinks for us. After about 15 minutes of being in my pad we started to kiss and after a nice long passionate kiss, she slowly slithered down to her knees and started to unbuckle my belt.
It was a good night
She really liked the place and was commenting on how it reminded her of Spain. I was happy to be able to give her a nice experience. My only worry with this girl was that she seemed TOO impressed with everything and I was feeling like I was on a reality show like the bachelor etc where the girl gets so wrapped up in all the luxury settings that they get a false sense of what is going on. I am really used to eating in expensive restaurants etc so for me it was like whatever. I think I need to be more careful with the girls I choose because she seemed a bit naive and immature.
The food WAS quite good, I had some kind of simple chicken dish with green peppers and some sauce with some rice etc although just typing this makes me think of what it's like to eat really good risotto and the next date I go on, we are definitely going somewhere that makes great risotto. She told me a lot about her country and how different it was from Chicago. She said she had a really big extended family and that she missed them a lot. I am always very cautious about girls that go on and on about hanging out with their family.
She said she was a big fan of The Smiths and Morrissey and I nearly fell out of my seat. I have never met a girl that likes Moz so I was like wow this girl is cool. She said her favorite song was "That Joke Isn't Funny Anymore" and I told her that my favorite song was "Jack the Ripper" (it's kind of rare, download it) She also said she loves to watch Survivor on tv which I like too. There WAS something about this girl that was rubbing me the wrong way though. Perhaps it was her crooked smile or perhaps it was this lurking suspicion I had that she might have a kid or some other crazy thing from her past.
I wasn't sure how serious I wanted to get with her. When we were leaving the restaurant she grabbed my hand and I was like oooooooo kkkkkkkk I guess she is really into me. However I wasn't sure if she liked me or if she liked the "idea" of me and my flashing car and clothes. As I was driving her home I was thinking... hmm I could easily bang this chick... should I? Or could this girl become a stage 3 clinger (Wedding Crashers reference lol) I kept looking at her curvy hips and was like hmmm ok.
I just drove straight to my place and she was like oh. I was like yeah. She was like I see. We went upstairs and I poured a few drinks for us. After about 15 minutes of being in my pad we started to kiss and after a nice long passionate kiss, she slowly slithered down to her knees and started to unbuckle my belt.
It was a good night
Friday, November 6. 2009
Branching out
The amount of girls I meet online is ridiculous. Perhaps I should not have put in anything about me being a lawyer etc because I think that is the main reason I get so many inquiries online. I like to think that I am a decent looking guy, but I got a feeling that that is not the reason for all the inquiries. I guess everyone is looking for security and money is important. So far, I have not dated any weird ethnicity girls yet. I have pretty much stuck to white girls but now I am thinking I should branch out and give some of these other girls a chance... wow that sounded so conceited lol. Anyways, I went through all my requests and I selected 6 girls who I normally would not ever go out with. I haven't had much luck with white women yet in terms of trying to find someone I am compatible with so why not... lets give it a shot and see how it goes. The first girl is named Maria and she is latin. I'm not sure exactly from where, but she has olive skin and dark hair etc. She is lean but she has some nice curves, like all latin girls do. In her profile pictures she is wearing skin tight pants - big shocker there lol. So my plan is to go on a date with each of these 6 girls and if I have no success than I am going back to nothing but white girls lol. So I am going to take her out for dinner tomorrow night and I am not sure if I should take her to Charlie Trotter's on Armitage Ave. or if I should take her to Brazzaz on Dearborn St. Both of them are high end places, but I think I might go with Trotter's because I doubt that is the kind of food that she is used to and I want to see how she behaves outside of her comfort zone. I will probably take her over to 404 Wine Bar since we are going to be in the Lincoln Park Area. I will let you guys know how it goes 
